Bangkok

Hello from Bangkok,

IMG_7439In a few short days, we have come to feel comfortable in Bangkok. My first thought was “get me out of here!” but that is probably the way it always starts. It’s rather like a never-ending carnival, lively and colorful and it seems people from all over the world are spending time here. I don’t believe I have yet heard more different languages in a single day or seen more dreadlocks, piercings, or tanned, tattooed families with babies in backpacks. There are quite a number of very interesting, though pale, older people too. The streets are teeming, yet they seem calm and they are well swept. The stream of traffic moves at a sane pace and unlike many busy cities there is not incessant horn honking going on. Taxi-cabs are hot pink and lime green.

IMG_7522The Thais themselves seem to be working hard while the rest of us are on holiday. Thai people love their food and they can cook it fantastically from scratch in simple kitchens on the street. Every waking hour in the length of just a few paces cooks are frying chicken and fresh seafood, stirring great steaming pots of broth for noodle soups while gathering up handfuls of fresh green vegetables and red, hot peppers to toss in. They are tending broad metal pans of coconut curries and slicing mangoes and pineapple and calling out to one another. In the midst of them all a tiny lady crouches on the sidewalk deftly wrapping little balls of sticky, sweetened nuts in a bit of leaf to offer for dessert. A fringe of lacey, dried fish is strung above her head. For a few dollars you can taste all of it!

IMG_7417Most of the time we eat standing up at streetside stall but by mid-afternoon after having started off on the day’s explorations early in the morning, it has become our easy habit to take up a stool just off the street to enjoy a cold beer with our curry and noodles and watch the carnival passing by.

IMG_7432The side streets are narrow and lined with more stalls and vendors of all kinds and diminish to still narrower alleyways which become small neighborhoods. Children play just inside the doorsill while elders on stools, deep in conversation, pull apart to let you pass through. The familiar routes through the winding alleyways to our hostel’s neighborhood feel comfortable even after dark. Just enough soft light spills from the doorways to show our path home.

We are staying near the Chao Praya, the great brown river that flows through Bangkok. The breeze off the water is cool and it is a good night for sleeping while the moths still flit under the lights.

There is so much more to tell about Bangkok of course but those will be stories for other times. Tomorrow we fly to Rangoon.

Goodnight, love Monika and Randy

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Leaving

My ‘rule of threes’ is laid out on the bed. 3 undies, 3 pairs of socks, 3 t-shirts, 3 bottoms (two pants + one skirt), 3 long-sleeve shirts. Plus .. one hoodie, a bandana, a windbreaker and a hat. That’s the clothes, a carefully considered selection. There is also a ziploc of first aid, a kit bag, a mosquito net and a pair of sandals. I’ll wear the boots.

Boots

Three is a good number. First of all it is odd, that’s good. It is also a sensible number for clothes-packing. One set to wear, one set can be waiting to be washed, and there is a spare set. That way if I can’t do a wash, I can always wash out two sets together and have the third to wear the next day in case the things don’t dry in one night.

The pristine American dollars are staying nicely flat between folded cardboard and ziploc’d shut. Burma requires pristine American dollars to exchange for their kyat. I wonder what they do with the dollars in Burma afterward? I wonder a lot of things about Burma. There will be so many discoveries.

We leave tomorrow. The house is battened down and since we didn’t replace the roof this past summer, the buckets are strategically placed for possible leaks while we’re away. We’re leaving our home behind and the (3) kids have all been mailed a recent happy photo of the two of us to put on their fridges while we leave them behind too. Our friends have been kissed and hugged good-bye.

Randy’s rule has always been to pack on the last day and no amount of discussion has changed that. I have been ready for weeks and one last glance confirms I am ready. Though we are both excited to be going to Burma we know our visit there will be bittersweet. We will keep in touch and will try to be as ‘Virginia’s moth’.

Love Monika and Randy

Istanbul

October 18

Arrived on the red-eye early Sunday morning to find it raining here in Istanbul. One of the things Monika most wanted to do before she left here was to visit the barracks where Florence Nightingale spent her time working during the Crimean War and for which she utimately became famous. We had heard that it was a bit of a challenge to get in, since her barracks are now part of one of the largest military bases in the world. One needs to write a letter and request permission to enter at least 48 hours ahead, provide passport photos, and await clearance. So, it seemed like a good thing to get started on all this as soon as we arrived back in the city. Once the letter was written, our hotel clerk kindly offered to fax it to the base. We didn’t expect anything to happen until Monday at least, but much to our suprise a short time later a phone-call came back with a request to fax copies of our passports. Then, a few hours later… a telephone call from Lieutenant Colonel Verdat Izmar! He said that it was odd for him to be in his office on a Sunday afternoon, but that we had his permission to visit Florence’s barracks and her personal quarters tomorrow at eleven o’clock! Too much!

That afternoon we spent along the shores of the Golden Horn, the inner harbour of Istanbul. The fisherman were selling their catch of the day, shouting to passers-by that theirs was indeed the freshest and that their prices were the best. We found a small restaurant on the water’s edge that had a sunny brick wall to sit against. The breeze off the Bosphorus is cool these days. Lunch was a fresh fried mackerel sandwich (which was actually half a baquette) and a beer which had to be wrapped in newspaper to hide the fact that we were drinking during Ramazan.

After lunch we walked back over the Galata Bridge past hundreds of men who each had a fishing pole hung over the side of the of the bridge patiently waiting for a bite. They were fishing for sea bream…they are about the size of a sardine or as big as a herring. At first we thought that the little buckets they were holding them in were actually bait until we saw a few being reeled in. Down to the Sirkeci train station, the beginning and the end of the Orient Express, the other end of which is in Paris. It’s a wonderful old train station with huge, gorgeous, round stained glass windows. The original restaurant is still there… the resting spot for the rich and famous…reminiscent of Agatha Christie.

Later in the evening we went to the city square…huge gathering place between the Blue Mosque and the Aya Sofia (Church/Mosque/Museum). It was like Mecca! Thousands and thousands of people celebrating the end of today’s fast. Sellers of every type of Turkish food imaginable all dressed in traditional clothing…Turkish coffe and kebaps, corn, lamb…alll prepared over hot coals, colorful lollipops being made by hand on the spot…music, entertainment, the largest carnival you have ever seen! Everyone smiling, happy as can be! Many people stopped to talk with us and invite us to sit and enjoy the food with them. So Ramazan in as much as it is a time of fasting and reflection is also a time of huge celebration after sunset. You have to see it to believe it! We never planned for this, just a wonderful coincidence that we are here during this time. It goes on every evening during Ramazan!

Monika hardly slept all night, being so excited about going to see Florence’s place. The trip to the barracks meant a ride on yet another rusty ferryboat, this time across the Bosporhous. We arrived at the gatehouse of the Turkish Military Base just a few minutes early, having got lost in the surrounding streets. The ferry lands in the middle of container shipping area. You can imagine the words between us as the hands of the clock drew closer to eleven. There was some colorful language as we tried to decide which way to go! We wanted to be punctual. As usual, the locals set us straight and in the end we arrived right on time. We passed through a number of levels of security and finally we were assigned our personal soldier to escort us to the barracks.

We were met by the Lt. Col.  Izmar himself, taken through more security and then on a private tour!  First, of course, he related the history of the Turkish military and only then took us up to Florence’s area. The Turkish army has taken great effort to preserve her memory. Her surgery room is on the second level of a corner column of the huge barracks. From here she and 37 other volunteer nurses performed surgeries and because of her revolutionary theories and practice of simple hygeine managed to reduce the death rate from 20% to 2% in the two years that she practiced here! Much of the equipment that she used is still in place, even a simple chest tube. Two hundred soldiers were treated in the barracks at one time. She had little time for leisure, but she had a small room above her surgery for herself.

There is a desk, upon which stands her lamp and her candle. On the walls of the room are some of the letters that she had written to nurses back in England telling them about her experiences and teaching them about her techniques. As well, letters written to the British Government asking for financial support for the families of the soldiers who died there. There we were standing in the room of “The Lady with the Lamp”! It was a very moving moment. Then Randy drummed up the courage to ask the commander for permission for Monika to touch the lamp….He said yes! but normally it would not be allowed, but since no one was looking…okay. What a sweetheart! Another, even still more moving moment as Monika touches the lamp…she has not washed her hand since !!!

October 19

Having another bizarre time at Grand Bazzar…some serious shopping to do today and only 4200 shops to choose from and all of the shopkeepers so ready to help you part with your money, and ready to haggle over the price.

We went to the Hamam last night. The Turkish bath…another wonderful experience…will have to tell you all about it when we get back. 

So, bye for now from Turkey. This fantastic history, sociology, archeaology, geography, political science lesson is drawing to a close. We will be so sad to leave, and doubtless we will be back one day. So much yet to explore. It has been great to be able to share this with everyone.

Love Mom and Dad

So sad to be leaving soon…but

Hello Tlell, hope you had a great time at Thanksgiving! Say hi to Rex too. We are on our way back to Istanbul this evening, arriving tomorrow morning at 7:00. This is the latest instalment of the Turkey journals…glad you are enjoying them.

October 15

We have returned from the farthest point of our journey and are now back in the village of Goreme. We were so comfortable here the first time that we have decided to come back to relax for a few days. Our cave was still vacant, so we have settled in and last night slept like a couple of bears. Besides being back in beer country…the rules around Ramazan are a bit looser the further west we come…the simple pleasures that we are now enjoying include being able to do laundry in a washing machine. We dropped off our things at the village barber shop this morning and now during our afternoon stroll, we can see our knickers and jeans flapping in the Capadoccian breeze above his shop. Up to now we have been washing our things in the tiniest bathroom sinks imaginable. Randy has a different technique that he says has worked wonderfully for him every other trip too…he takes his clothes into the shower with him and scrubs them there. I have yet to give it a try. Personally I have found that the plastic garbage cans in the hotel room work wonderfully well as a clothes-wash tub…

The bathroom themselves are wee things…the toilet, sink and shower usually share the same 4×4 foot space. No bother with shower curtains, the shower head pokes out from the wall and the whole room gets a good hosing down as you bathe…just have to remember to put the toilet paper outside before you start.

Since the last email we toured Dyarbakir for the rest of the day, and then hiked back out to the bus station where we had left our packs. Part of me wondered if our things would still be there. Of course they were! Front and centre beside the TV. All the bus drivers, waiting passengers, shoe-shine boys had been watching them for us all day.

Since we had a few hours yet before the overnight bus back to Goreme, we decided to have a bite to eat at a humble, but somehow inviting, cafe across the street from the bus station. Bus station neighborhoods are the same here as in Canada. I think it was the string of colored Christmas lights stretching from the porch to the melon wagon that drew us in…but I also think it was something more powerful than that…because a half an hour later I think I looked into the eyes of a saint.

 While eating our meal, a crowd of young boys about 10 – 12 years old cameI counted 9. Besides the shabby clothes and dirty faces, the blackened hands gave them away…shoe-shine boys; homeless kids. There are many in the city of Dyarbakir. Many families fled the countryside during the last few decades because of the skirmishes between the Kurdish separatists and the army. Nothing much for these farming families in the city and many of them have become very poor. Anyway, these boys arranged themselves at two of the tables and plates of rice and tomato sauce were brought out for them as well as several heaping baskets of pita. They smiled and nodded and asked “What is your name?” and then laughed uproariously as some tried to pronounce ‘Randy’…they had no trouble with “Monika”. As they were eating, outside in front of the window of the cafe, on the porch, the owner had begun to perform his evening prayers. He was a dark, well-built man about 40 or so. He raised his arms upward, bowed, knelt and put his head to the ground. He repeated this several times. He then looked into to the window at the boys and nodded toward each one.. and toward us. Finished his prayers, he stood up and set the wooden board aside that he had used as his prayer mat and came inside. The boys had eaten, they said their goodbyes to him and to us and left, disappearing into the dark. We were ready to go as well. As we paid for our meal we teased the owner saying that he was fortunate to have many sons. “No” he says with a hearty laugh “they are not my sons”, and then quite proudly says “but they are all going to school”. It became clear that this man has taken nine boys under his wing! He feeds them and makes sure they go to school. (Lord knows where they sleep…) Now if he isn’t a saint…I will always remember those soft eyes beneath those bushy black eyebrows and that gentle face…and…his kebaps were the best we’d eaten! We have met such wonderful people here. The country has its problems, the literacy rate, homelessness, health care, women’s rights, pollution, government graft etc…that’s the downside, but I prefer to talk about that when I can talk at length instead of writing. Which I will no doubt do when I get home…very soon. Miss you so much!

Love Mom and Dad.

From Mesopotamia

Hello again to all of you! Remember learning about Mesopotamia in school? Well, we are here… on the banks of the Tigris river!

October 12

We have headed still further east today toward Dyarbakir then south to the smaller city of Mardin. It has a population about the same as the entire Comox Valley, but picture everyone squished into the hill between Ryan Road and Comox Hill. It is an ancient city built mostly of honey colored rock. Most of the people are Kurdish and they are very warm and kind, interested in us and where we come from.

We are no longer virtually the only tourists here, but rather we are the only tourists here for certain. The children eagerly come up to ask “What is your name?” in very careful English … practicing their school work. “Where do you live?” is the second question we are asked. They are hanging over our shoulders watching as we type…all smiles! The adults are most careful to distinguish us from Americans before they open up. They smile broadly and say “Canada good!” Some even go so far as to share with us their belief that Allah has sent Katarina because of the U.S. involvement in Viet Nam, Afghanistan and Iraq. They follow that with “Welcome to Turkey, welcome to Mardin!”

Once again the bazzar is such a labyrinth of alleys, so sensuous in every way. We found ourselves in “Old Mardin” a maze of rock walls and houses built into the hillside. We got lost in there too!  It is one of the oldest cities ın the world and overlooks the immense plains of Mesopotamia. The village streets and alleys are so steep that donkeys are the most sensible mode of transporting goods to and from market. They become part of the street traffic as well. A horseman galloped right through the main thoroughfare alongside cars and busses!

Syrian Christians settled here in the 5th century and though they were eventually pushed out, many of the families have lived here for hundreds of years. Mardin was only recently safe to visit after being hard hit in the 70’s and 80’s by the Kurdish resistance effort. Everyone is certain to tell us that they are Kurdish and wonder if we know anything about them.

We are waiting for the cannon to fire so that we call join in the evening meal with everyone else.

October 13

The evening meal was stupendous! The restaurant was in an old Syrian home, the name of which we cannot remember as we have lost the Lonley Planet guidbook today! It was our bible and security blanket…We are on our own now with no map or hints to guide us. Oh well…more adventures!

Got the bus this morning and, at breakneck speed (Mario Kurddretti at the wheel!) came back to Dyarbakir. Let off at a much smaller bus station adjacent to the sheep and goat market. Thousands of animals up for bid and the farmers herding and parading them for buyers. Blood flowing in the gutters around the market, as those bought seem to be slaughtered on the spot. How else to get a goat into the side car of a scooter??? We thought the bus was going to take us to the main bus station and after circling the city a number of times the driver finally looked at us oddly and, using sign language, we managed to communicate where we wanted to go. Unfortunately his bus didn’t go there!!! So he pawned us off on another reluctant driver. Other passengers, most cheerfully helped us out and tonight we will be on the red-eye to Adana.

We came across a chainsaw shop in an alleyway at the bazzar here in Dyarbakir today…what a celebration they had to discover that Randy was a faller and that he was from Canada! Hugs and kisses for Randy from a half dozen of the men…(Monika was thankful to be ignored!) Since we had learned to say “Good-day” and “Thank-you” in Kurdish (before we lost the guidebook) they were thrilled and welcomed us to ‘Kurdistan’. They are really hopeful for a homeland.

Dyarbakir’s old city is surrounded by a huge wall of black basalt rock. It is second only to the Great Wall of China but we have been told it is taller. It most impressive. One is able to climb to a viewpoint and from there we were able to look far across the plains. In the distance one can see Iraq. Stunning actually to know we are so close. We tried for a photo but we had a hoard of children pulling at our coat tails and pickpockets are rampant, so we beat a hasty retreat.

Guess that’s about it for now…take care all…soon be back in Istanbul…around the 16th of October…probably write once more before then.

Love Mom and Dad

Hello from Turkey

Merhaba!

Lıfe ıs great! So much to say!  Thıs keyboard ıs quıte a bıt dıfferent, so takes a whıle to get ıt so ıt’s readable.  We have been away from İstanbul for a few days now, ıt was fabulous, and we wıll spend a few more days on our return. Istanbul bus statıon (otogar) ıs the sıze of a football fıeld!

Bus companıes competıng for your busıness surround the perımeter- about 200 of them – are all shoutıng as you walk by hopıng you wıll choose them for your tıcket. We have managed the LRT and the tram ın Istanbul…now the bus.

We are ın Pergamom (Bergama) on the Agean Coast just north of İzmİr. We took the bus by the northern route around the Sea of Marmara and down the Gallıpollı penınsula. Fertıle land ın that part of rural Turkey. Olıve trees heavy wıth fruıt…there are no fences, only shepherds and cowherds tendıng the flocks…laurel bushes ın bloom -pınk and green along the roadsıde…donkey carts along the shoulder of narrow roads, carryıng a load of melons atop of whıch ıs perched an entıre famıly…

We crossed the Dardanelles from the pennınsula to Çanakkale ın a rusty old ferry boat…lots of passengers, women entırely veıled and cloaked entırely ın black, accompanıed by daughters who are stıll careful to cover theır heads so that not a sıngle haır escapes…sometımes takes two scarves to achıeve thıs…the outer scarf ıs sometımes sılky and colorful, but ıt may depend on what your mother wıll let you get away wıth…the pursor on the boat presses a cheese bun ınto our hands along wıth the typıcal small tulıp shaped glass of çay (tea). Most enjoyable…we thank hım profusely only to dıscover later that he has charged us 20 bucks! Lıve and learn…

I have been watchıng the men, I see that they are quıte affectıonate ın theır greetıng one another. They clasp hands, pull together and touch temples on eıther sıde. Sometımes, a more ınıtımate greetıng ıncludes a clasp at the back of the neck wıth the free hand. Kınd of hard to explaın, I’ll have to show you when I get back, but ıt ıs a warm gesture.

We spent a nıght ın Çanakkale, a pleasant fıshıng town on the Agean Sea…walk along the promenade by the sea…not a sıngle guard raıl ın sıght…I thınk back to how, ın my western world, we are so protected from ourselves…kınd of stıfles the ımagınatıon I thınk… anyway we awake to a typıcal Turkısh breakfast of olıves, slıced tomatoes and cucumbers, bread, a hard-boıled egg, cheese and çay. It ıs ıncluded wıth the room prıce of about 30 bucks a nıght.

The bread ıs great, havıng been regulated for decades…addıtıves to bread are ıllegal…no preservatıves, whıteners allowed. If you are caught cheatıng, fırst tıme ıs a warnıng…second tıme ‘go dırectly to jaıl’ you are out of busıness!

Bergama ıs the sıte of many hıstorıc ruıns … Roman , Greek, Byzanıtıne…and the bırthplace of Galen, the founder of modern medıcıne. We take a hıke up the ruıns on hıll to the sıte where he practıced early medıcıne on wounded Gladıators. Much of hıs practıce centered on therapeutıc baths. I am dısappoınted that there are no souvenırs to brıng home but I dıd have the honor of drınkıng from hıs sacred fountaın!…Bergama has apparenly not woken up to that potentıal and I should rather be relıeved that thıs ıs the case.

Well, I thınk I have dıstracted you enough…I love the food…I eat lamb every day, drınk ıce cold frothy buttermılk at roadsıde stands, stop daıly for a cup of thıck Turkısh kafe ( you need a glass of water at hand to swısh the grıt out of your mouth afterward, the taste ıs great, but the texture takes some gettıng used to )…

Talk to you agaın soon. Love your emaıls…Love Mom….

Dad says hı and sends hıs love…he ıs workıng at another computer at thıs ınternet cafe and ıs wrıtıng to Steve and Edward and the rest of the crew..